Sunday, September 1, 2024 | Mike Rowley

Matthew 5:38-42

We value justice and fairness, place a large weight on it. But Scripture calls us to a higher standard.

How Christians should respond to difficult people in our lives. Individually responding to people we actually know in everyday life. Not actions by a government.

Four examples of how to be Christlike in interpersonal settings with difficult people.

“You have heard it said…” Jesus acknowledged the standard used during the time, the OT law. Not dismissing it but calling followers to go beyond the law.

Change hearts and perspectives.

“Let Me show you a better way.”

Example 1: body parts (insults)

Leviticus 24

Two principles: justice and temperance. Fair is fair. Temperance, restraint employed when exercising justice.

Make things right without revenge.

Jesus raises the bar: reconsider your priorities from justice to being in right relationship with the other person.

It deals with insults, not violence.

Don’t “slap” back with an insult. Allow them the opportunity to insult you again.

Don’t put the focus on their evil action but in your ability to control yourself. Choosing to lead with mercy. Takes fuel out of the fire.

If you want real peace, real reconciliation, lead with mercy. Because it’s what Jesus has called us to do.

Example 2: lawsuits (disagreements)

OT law- can’t take the outer garment but you can the inner

Context: disagreement between friends and family members… other person has a defendable position but you think you’re right.

Let the guy have what he wants and give him more than he requests.

Do more than make it right. Make it REALLY right. Over the top right.

Let him see you value the relationship between the two of you more than the “stuff.”

This can be incredibly hard, to subordinate ourselves to others who don’t treat us well. Builds us into the likeness of Christ.

Can I let him take advantage of me? Can I let it go? Can I show mercy to a guy like that?

The road that leads to righteousness passes through mercy.

Example 3: responsibilities and duties

A Roman soldier could force someone to carry his pack for one mile and no more.

I resent having to go one, why would I go two?

First mile, respecting their authority and doing as you’re told. Being obedient.

Second mile, you are now in control, and your message is louder, more memorable. I am serving you not because I have to but because so choose to.

Positions of authority: bosses, parents.

Do requests well, and go beyond what they ask.

Go beyond what is expected of you. Become salt and light.

Example 4: borrow

Don’t be stingy with His stuff.

We put people above stuff. It’s a ministry to be salt and light.

Not talking about manipulators. Jesus tells His disciples, “Be as gentle as doves but wise as serpents.”

People you know who have a need and you’re in a position to help.

It’s an opportunity to strengthen a relationship.

When you notice a need, offer to help before they even ask.

Be first to lead with mercy as Christ has led with us.